Excerpts

Excerpts

Feedback

Marshall Goldsmith; Mark Reiter. What Got You Here Won’t Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful (pp. 134-164). Profile Books, 2013. A Brief History of Feedback Feedback has always been with us, ever since the first man

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Self Disputation

Self Disputation Martin E. Seligman. Learned Optimism. Chapter 12: The Optimistic Life. First Vintage Books, 2006. pp. 207-234. Notes and Highlights The ABCs KATIE HAS BEEN on a strict diet for two weeks. Tonight after work she goes out for

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Judging Others

Judging others Excerpt From Sally Helgesen, How Women Rise, Random House Business pp. 225-26 While you’re reexamining these attitudes, you might also want to jettison your critique of how “political” your colleagues and bosses are, often and especially including the

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Two Ways of Looking at Life

Martin E. Seligman. Learned Optimism. Vintage Books, 2006. pp 3-10 THE FATHER is looking down into the crib at his sleeping newborn daughter, just home from the hospital. … The baby opens her eyes and stares straight up. The father

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The Engaging Questions

The Engaging Questions Marshall Goldsmith; Mark Reiter. Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts–Becoming the Person You Want to Be, The Crown Publishing Group, Crown Business 2015. pp. 111-120. We initiated a study, with the steady stream of participants in my leadership

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THE WASTE OF FREE TIME

THE WASTE OF FREE TIME Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Flow, The Classic Work on How to Achieve Happiness. Rider, 2002, pp. 162-163. Although, as we have seen, people generally long to leave their places of work and get home, ready to put

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The Elevator Pitch

The Elevator Pitch How do you start taking responsibility for assuring your work gets noticed? How do you draw attention to what you contribute without feeling like a self-centered jerk? You might start by articulating a vision of where you

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Habits That Keep Women from Reaching Their Goals

Habit 1: Reluctance to Claim Your Achievements Excerpts from: Sally Helgesen, How Women Rise, Random House Business Books, 2019 (pp. 63-75) Several years ago, the author spent days interviewing senior female partners in accounting, law, consulting, and investment firms. She

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WHAT’S STOPPING YOU FROM CREATING YOUR OWN LIFE?

Marshall Goldsmith; Mark Reiter. The Earned Life: Lose Regret, Choose Fulfillment (Currency 2022, pp.15-34). One of Peter Drucker’s valedictory insights before he died at age ninety-five in 2005 said as much: In a few hundred years, when the history of

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